09-24-23: happy sunday... it's supposed to be cool and wet around these parts today... slept much better last night, got about six straight hours, with much less coughing, sneezing, drooling, etc.
It'll be our fourth straight week checking out the new local church, they are continuing in their series of various folks in leadership sharing their 'conversion stories', their 'come to Jesus moments'... they are a Jesus-loving recovery-centric organization, recovery seems to be their big ministry out-reach. i imagine that it's helpful for the folks that go to their recovery program to go to a church where no one dresses fancy, most of them had tough/difficult backgrounds/upbringing, and they speak with the vocabulary of common/regular folks... meaning, no fancy theology words, and no one speaking like old king james... they have some exceedingly gifted musicians, and the drummer uses electric drums that don't seem to pierce my ears and deafen me for hours after the service... the drums seem perfect for a small church building... i think my mom would have liked this place.
should be a pretty quiet day today, i have some projects to work on, my fuzzy/congested head hasn't been helpful for concentration/attention lately, it offers many-extra challenging ADD moments, the kind that i've been over-coming most of my life... now that i think of it, one of the projects that i've been prioritizing is very long and boring repetitive stuff that you have to think about enough that you can't go totally on auto-pilot to knock it out, so that probably adds fuel to the attention-deficit fire, it's repetitive enough that it's boring, but i can't totally slack-off and let the mind wander... stupid project... anyways, the head congestion gives me just enough brain-fog to make the boring project all the more difficult... stupid congestion...
the hip is coming along nicely, it still gets tired pretty easy, though... the wrist is still pretty weak, it gets tired very easy just doing routine things, and things that you'd take for granted, it's not always painful, but every day i still tweak it just right and my eyes open to full frisbee-mode... i only did one of the O/T exercises yesterday, and some of the stretches... i think i over-worked it screwing around with the fire the other night, raking coals and flipping logs for a few hours, but i guess the air density/pressure can make it worse too... it was probably a combination of both, and then a few other things that i'm not thinking of.
i was disappointed in an article that was written on a blog that i typically appreciate... it's supposed to be a website devoted to wellness and spirituality, but their last post seemed quite vindictive, it was a not-so-subtle passive-aggressive retaliatory response directed at someone that offended the web-site's leadership, i hate to see folks war, but it happens... i may have done something similar if i was one of the scorned parties, but my communication-style isn't very passive, i have the opposite problem, i'd probably lob a verbal ICBM at them, unless i had time to fully process the smite, contemplate whether there was some truth behind the smite, and see if there might be some self-correction that i might employ moving forward; maybe a lesson--or multiple lessons for me to learn... if there weren't, i'd probably lob a ship's worth of ICBMs at them... what's done is done, and i hope everyone involved grows and matures from the experience... praying for peace, and a fruitful outcome... get to your root-causes, what needs aren't being met, are they physiological, psychological, emotional, spiritual... what are the root-causes, there are many factors to consider, and it might be a combination of all of them... you might be eating/drinking like shit, require some supplements, have a medical condition that might need more attention, you might be emotionally spent/exhausted, haven't had the time to process a bunch of weird stimuli/experiences--stressors and the like... and sometimes we are following our own ego too much, chasing folly and getting off-course, and not giving God enough attention... sometimes we are just plain stubborn, sometimes unwilling to self-regulate/correct/adjust to a messy environment, or bad-habits, or life-style changes that hopefully we come to realize, and act upon those realizations... people are messy and complicated, sometimes more than othen others, and some folks more than others; and most folks require therapy to help see what they are missing, and get back on track... most folks can self-actualize and exercise much more potential when we get past unhealthy habits/routines, give God more attention, consider/respect/love other folks a bit more, don't get distracted by chaotic/unmanagable stressors and life-style, set better priorities that align with reality, and not folly or selfish endeavors... most folks are capable of self-actualizing, to whatever degree of their individual potential is still left... if you aren't getting your prayers/hopes answers directly from God then maybe seek counsel from folks that might be able to help, elders/physicians/therapists... somewhere between God, self, and others there are answers to help with un-managed/un-healthy stressors and seemingly impossible obstacles/challenges... sometimes the answers might be easy, sometimes they require life-style changes... sometimes you have lots/tons of slow steps to take to get healthy and out of messy environments, especially for folks who find themselves in a nasty form of hell on earth, but God can pull you out with the assistance of other people, sometimes even unlikely one's with no selfish motivation... everyone can take little, or big steps today to try to get more healthy in the body/mind/soul, taking time to reflect on our current situation/environment/lifestyle, set better priorities, and get back to Reality, and serving God and Man while carrying on with our lives... anyways, just making some observations about things/situations that i really don't understand enough to comment on, but i hate to see wars--unless it's a season to war.
i think i'm gonna do a shave and a haircut at some point today, just the sides and the back, the top doesn't require any attention but prayer, prayer for the grieving man whose body has changed quite a bit from my peak/prime years... my new glasses ought to stay on a little better with less hair over my ears, i picked the ones with the straight sides that don't curl over the ears... i'm happy with them, the price-tag was a kick in the crotch, but they seem to work very well, i sit behind a computer most of the day, so these glasses are optimized for 2-3 feet, and have the blue-blocker and anti-glare coatings--the cheap walmart readers/cheaters sort of worked for the last decade--they worked like my former 1974 dodge-dart, not terrible, but these RX glasses are like a well-tuned sports-car
OK, it's seven AM, time for my second cup of coffee... enjoy your sunday... God bless. -- ct
09-24-23 later: this is just me saying that i edited, and added to the earlier post i made this-morning... partly based on a better understanding of the newer local church, as well as giving more consideration to an internet-hosted verbal spat amongst other folks that i appreciate... and then also to say that it's only sprinkled out so far today, it still feels a bit chilly, but it's nice weather to be moving outdoors... i've got to go make a trip to our town 'transfer station', the NE Patriots are playing, so the dump ought to be pretty low-traffic right now. -- ct
09-24-23 more later: i went to the dump -- at half-time, crazy-busy, go figure... i hate that i'm old enough to be concerned with how busy the dump is, and how to time it well, i wasn't in any rush, and exercised good patience and respect, so i was stupid to be concerned with timing the dump properly for least resistance... i'm 54 now, is that about how old people are when they are concerned with things such as dump-timing... or, am i above or below the aging bell-curve to be concerned with these matters... good grief.
Anyways, just wanted to write a bit more about church today, i like how the lady spoke today, she uses vocabulary that i'm comfortable with, she had a good way of articulating her story, her witness, her testimony, her spiritual epiphany, her evolution... whatever you want to call it, she did a good job articulating herself, and the new priorities and direction that she took after her come-to-Jesus awakening... she spoke more of her past, her struggles, when she began to take God more seriously, when she connected with God via. Jesus, or The Holy Spirit, or however it technically goes (my apologies, i'm not a religious pro.)... however it all happens, and the personal/spiritual evolution/transformation that happens as you make the commitment to follow God The Father, through the model, teachings, example of Jesus, Logos, even Messiah, a prophesied unblemished sacrificial lamb that did not roar in to conquer some massive physical enemy/army/government, but preached more to a return to God His Father--our 'Father in Heaven', so to speak... so, that guy from nazareth is very special in a whole bunch of ways that ought to be taken into consideration, for a whole bunch of reasons, because He's very important, you see... the nice lady at the church didn't say all of that today, i just had to say my peace on some matters... but the nice lady did a good job settling-in, and willing to push past her comfort-zone... it's not easy revealing a bunch of your junk/past/low's to anyone for most folks, never mind a bunch of people at once, and many of them being strangers... you could tell that last-week's two nice speakers had to push past their comfort-level to be able to do so, as well... it's your authenticity/transparency/perspective/epiphany/testimony that is everyone's gift to humanity, and appreciation for God... i invite/challenge You, the Reader... no matter what your age is, or how long you have been following Christ for, or how well you can articulate yourself, or how much time you have to prioritize such exercises/projects... but i challenge you to write your own story... give me about 2,500 words... actually, you don't have to give it to me, just do it for yourself, to get a current appreciation, and perspective at your age/maturity... what's your journey/evolution/growth/challenges/trials been like since you re-established a commitment to God... write it for you, write it for your Loved-ones, write it to ground yourself, make sure you are aligning with reality, write it as an ego-check... if you can only eek-out a thousand words, fine, but if you can go ten-thousand words then do it... what's your story, how did it go for you, what sort of direction/changes did you find yourself making, how did you get healthy, in body/mind/soul... where are you now, do you have a support-system/team/family/respectable/mature/decent folks, or confidants that you are able to share your struggles, and help get you back on course, or help you in ways that you can/should be helped... i think that's much of what a decent church offers, if they have some sort of dedicated/prioritized out-reach for a realistic and kind way to help with real problems, that's a pretty decent sign of church health/priorities... i think i like this new church we've been visiting, i don't know most of their songs, actually, i don't think i knew any from the last four weeks, but they are good, but i sort of tune-out to some degree, try to make use of the spiritual potential, and by that i mean by the spiritual-energy generated by physically gathered group of folks that are gathered for honor/worship God... some physical churches do that with more energy than others... i don't know the songs, but it all speaks to my soul, it feels like God's presence is increased with a gathering like that... maybe i'm too 'spiritual' in some of my theories/explanation/understanding of these things, but God sort of touched my soul through the unfamiliar music, maybe that's what i'm trying to say, i don't know if they are technically some denomination, or whatever, but i like them, and i'm kind of a church-snob... i try to stay as connected to God as much as possible throughout the day, which can be quite inconsistent really, so, i don't really feel spiritually 'starved', but there is something about a gathering of folks that--probably for a good percentage of them--have some personal, deep-connection to God, and are actively joining in appreciation/worship of our living God... i forgot about that cool aspect of being in a good healthy church, it seems like you can 'feel' whatever you want to call it, some people say that it's the Holy Spirit, i don't know what it technically is, so i don't know what to call it... i try to make some effort to sort of pray/meditate daily, and that can be relaxing, in fact, sometimes i fall asleep when doing so, i can get an unexpected nap, so maybe i was just uber-relaxed, or maybe my soul/spirit was stimulated with a peace that's hard to describe, that transcends all understanding, as they say... i'll probably offer help when i get a better understanding of how i can actually help, i'm getting old and my body is a bit weaker and more gimpy, so my utility is a bit different then when i was younger/stronger, they seem to have plenty of young strong capable guys, so, i don't think they are in much need of muscle, and they certainly aren't short of music talent, they seem like they have their needs met pretty well, but they seem decent enough to help somehow... i haven't been to a church regularly for quite a while, the last one bugged me a bit, i was disappointed to some degree, they were certainly loving and caring people and kind people, they even helped us when we were going through a shit-storm of sorts, in hind-sight there was nothing wrong with them from my perspective, just didn't seem like a great fit over-all, but still good people, i was just offended by leadership/influencers getting political to youth, i don't like it in public schools, and i certainly don't like it in churches, you can't indoctrinate kids, you teach them principles, and when thy are old enough they will form their own opinions, which will evolve over time, as they do... i'm stupid to have been offended by it really, but it was part of a growing pattern/trend that caught me off-guard when it happened, and i didn't appreciate it when it hit close to home, it became more real... most of the country was on edge by the nasty political investments/tactics and resulting division, so leadership using their platform to attempt to influence youth in political matters was disappointing, but honestly, if the church was a good fit for us maybe it wouldn't have seemed as bad as i perceived it, but the fact that higher leadership totally punted on the matter when i brought it to their attention was more troubling, so it was sort of another warning-sign for me... i don't mind a church leader expressing their opinions/logic to mature adults, but apparently i have some line drawn in the sand with age groups, to be clear, i don't care who you actually support, we all have our own reasons for why we do what we do, i don't like any political 'side' to do that, it's wrong and most people know that... anyways, i've said my grievances, and i don't think i still harbor hard-feelings, i'm more or less saying why i wasn't motivated to go back to the church after 2020 election, and the covid closures... i went though a personal shit-storm, as well as millions of other people, and felt that i had enough of church for a while... but, i'm glad we checked out this newer local one, right in our neighborhood, maybe i'm ready for some consistent church gatherings, i didn't think i would be, i was perfectly content praying and meditating on my own actually, and answering questions when posed by my loved-ones, but i'm sort of introverted, and don't like over-stimulating events... so there's that too.
Anyhow, going to church today got me thinking about a bunch of different things, i'm still pretty guarded with new unfamiliar folks, i don't automatically assume pure motives, there are always too many threats to consider, having exposure to various threats, and the reality of predators, i seem to have trust-issues sometimes... when i feel that my threat-assessment has been satisfied i'll probably offer to help the new church somehow, but i hate that i do this, i think being security-centric it's hard to turn off the noggin in those respects, i wish it weren't so... there is nothing that set's off any red-flags, it just seems weird to have all the talent they have, as many pastors as they have, and still be able to afford a small church in little Newton, maybe i shouldn't be surprised, if God is moving, and people are awakening, and getting healthy, then maybe i shouldn't be surprised of anything, but i've misjudged and couldn't understand certain blessings in the past, i mistook them for traps of some sort; and have been played a fool by assholes, so maybe that's partly why i'm slow/hesitant about certain things nowadays, i've learned too many things the hard way... i shouldn't be surprised by anything anymore, but i still am, surprised by good things and not so good things, i'm incredibly naive/ignorant at my age, i can tell because i learn something new everyday, good, bad, or indifferent... OK, it's waaay past a realistic bed-time... g'night. -- ct