12-22-21 a couple of burritos a pear and an IPA later: so i thought i'd offer the reader one more reason to judge and dismiss my thoughts and opinions and perceptions, or maybe you find it insightful, or you don't give a crap, fine... but it's UFOs... oh yeah, i'm going there too... if you think that ufo types of things and really, i never gave the subject too much consideration until i read a recent article, and it made me recall a few experiences--first-hand witness of things which you might have a hard time explaining them any differently, ufo would be a simple nomenclature for something that's difficult to 'identify', that's sort of what it means... so a couple where at O'Haire, they were a pair of metallic spheres, so whatever, it's hard to gauge size on a sphere, especially metallic, so from my plane seat i could only tell that they were larger than basket-balls and one can only speculate beyond that really... and then some really peculiar things in CO and NM geographies mostly when pulling overnight shifts at a crappy job (i hate overnight shifts)... the CO were all completely at night, which made it difficult to really try to describe, but i'll say that you would have to be a video/ocular super- genius to reproduce it, but the pair of spheres in chicago were in perfect day-light... anyways, i don't choose to elaborate on things that i don't have a good understanding of, or can't really articulate, so i never gave any of those things tons of consideration, i just know what i saw and they were strange enough to my simple noggin not really consider communicating, just a couple close friends once or twice... and so a couple-of-few decades later i read a few online posts and they make me give a bit more consideration to some theory... but i also remember a buddy mentioning that his dad wrote books on the subject, and it was assumed to be a subject that was a bit easy for most folks to dismiss at the time... but it's just weird that those events come back so vividly so many years later, i really wanted to just dismiss the whole topic, but i thought that i'd bring it up... i think when i converted to a semi-generic form of christianity (non-denominational :-), i think that i took the context of any weird, or unexplained phenom simply as 'spirits', or angels or demons... or, i don't really know how i wanted to re-align what i had seen vs. what i now 'believed' on a meta-aspect, both concepts seemed weird and too un-defined in some respects, they were just sort of jumbled between 'weird' and 'i don't even want to know', and why should i give anything that's hard to logically explain a whole lot of time and attention anyways, especially if it doesn't seem to directly effect my life... so maybe i'm trying to say that i don't think the folks that fully believe in ufos and extraterrestrial sorts of things are koo-koo in theory--well a few of them that i've met seemed so--but i do give consideration to the matter, and i don't wear tin-foil hats either, i just don't give the subject matter a whole lot of attention... good thing i'm not in an astro-industry, i saw enough just a few times, so to speak... ... so how strange does any of that sound to the reader, anyways? maybe this post will trigger some more nasty-grams/email, i appreciate the good, bad, and everything in between... but my intent with transparency on this website is to offer the cancel-culture folks everything that they want to hear upfront... i choose to make their job too easy, and there is plenty of dirt to dig-up too, i've walked the fine line of good and bad for a bunch of years, an i'm not interested in a job that requires a subjective 'perfect image'... and really, the intent of transparency is to alert the reader of the obvious, that none of us are perfect, and image isn't everything... anyhow, i don't mind criticism... so use the form at the bottom of the page, and send-it. -- ct |
12-14-21 crazy early: we just got back from ER (urgent care) with youngest daughter, they ruled-out some of the nastier possibilities, but still not certain what is causing the acute pain, it's subsided bit, so we are hoping that it was either trapped gas, muscular, or god did something awesome... anyhow, it's 03:16 and even though i'm not fully functional, i'm still a bit wired from the midnight jug of coffee... we'll see how the rest of this day goes, but i'm hoping to fit in a bit of sleep.
i'm picking-up on some more ctmu stuff, they are smart folks that spent substantial time reading and learning and expect others to do the same, no shortcuts, just read and learn and then ask well thought-out questions... they don't appreciate folks that ask how to make peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches, time-wasters... i'm starting to get that now, tough love with a heaping of reality. anyways, i started another paper today called 'The CTMU as the Nexus of Spirituality and Cosmology: An Interdisciplinary Approach to Reality', it's not quite as difficult to consume as some of the quantum-physics papers, so i'm a bit encouraged... some of Langan's works from the 80s are so efficient with rich/dense vocabulary, and unfamiliar subject matter that my brain cells didn't quite know how to respond, in fact, one of the bigger papers took reading and re-reading and even some re-re-reading to grasp, but then again, i'm not the brightest bulb in the bunch, and reading the works of someone with about twice the IQ that i was gifted ought to be challenging with logical reasoning... i felt challenged/encouraged to read some of his works, and i happily accepted the challenge... and challenged i was/am... i could just continue reading low-lexiled publications if i want to remain unchallenged, but c'mon man, that would just be wrong... anyway, Christopher taught me few things just in the way that he responded to a new FB person, his writings are difficult for many folks, and there are no shortcuts in understanding... the lower your cognitive ability and intelligence the more times you might have to read the same thing to understand it... you have to put in the work/effort to grow/progress... and such is life... i--on the other hand--am not usually like that, i try to meet folks where they are at and rephrase things to help teach the things they are missing, and so that's sort of how i write and respond, but he catches on to trolls and adversaries pretty quickly, so maybe that's the deal with the fella that he responded to a couple of times today... i have my share of trolls too, but most of them aren't of the caliber that can really fool me, but some folks with a much broader vocabulary and IQ can initially fool me, in fact some of those folks could make fun of me and i may not even catch it at first... anyway, i enjoyed 'The Art of Knowing', and this other paper that i just started might be the one that i wished that i had read first... time will tell... OK, look, i've been awake so long that my belly is begging for another meal, but it shall be denied... well, at least for now... i'm going to fetch some tea, and resume reading until the sleepies kick-in... maybe wish me some luck. -- ct
12-14-21 later: sleeping was a torturous endeavor, lay down after 4:am--which is around the time that i usually wake up on my own… then the first morning alarm sounded off at 5:30, then the reminder alarm sounded off at 6:30, and then a third reminder alarm sounded off at 9:40... and somewhere in between those alarms there was a bit of sleeping involved... the 9:40 alarm reminds me that i have weekly calls with a therapist of sorts, today's call was good, but my cognition was impaired due to my all-nighter... some quick notes form today's talk...
... i had asked him about some info that he turned me on to months back, it's something that his type of folks call motivational interviewing, and part of it covers 'stages of change', it's become apparent to me that 'seasonal'--or maybe it's just a 'cyclic' depression is for real in some folks, it was brought to my attention that it's an observational and verifiable reality, and since i had a nasty time last autumn I was alerted that i might deal with that this year as well, so i was cautioned to the possibility of having another shit-season... well i am in contact with some close friends, relatives, and acquaintances that are in a bit of a shit-storm right now, and dealing with addiction and impulsive behavior that can be associated with it... anyways, the stages of change were explained as follows:
pre-contemplative -> contemplative -> active -> and finally/hopefully 'maintenance'
until active meets maintenance there can be great fluctuation of stability, and impulsive to compulsive actions and behavior, much of it seems sub-conscious, until active participation and realization that it's their battle to fight, and that others can only do so much fighting for them it's sort of like living in a painful fantasy land, repeating the same things over and over again expecting different results... fighting addiction is hard and many times painful, but reality is that we are responsible for our own thoughts, words, and deeds... or actions and behaviors...
... the part that was enlightening today was that we actually learn and interpret things differently when we are sober versus impaired, there is a physical re-routing of how information is formed... there seems to be a need to re-learn things when we are sober, the things that we might have learned when we were impaired, some addicts feel fvcked-up when they are sober because they are used to how their brain functions with the re-routing and storage of information that happens when impaired... that concept was new to me, so i will research and learn more... but i fvcking hate talking to drunks whom i know are going to forget ninety percent of our conversation when they wake-up the next day, that in itself is insanity, why would i keep talking to insane people expecting different results, hence my own bit of insanity, in doing so do i become the enabling codependent... anyways, i'm praying for some folks that are near and dear to my heart differently today than i had been lately...
... the 'stages of change' can be applied to other areas of our life too, we are all imperfect and we are all works in progress in many respects, and similar to the concept of 'grieving'--which can be applied to areas of loss beyond death--there are many healthy actions that can take a backseat when we are too busy and distracted by unrealistic responsibilities and expectations and false priorities, we are too busy to miss the obvious dysfunctional thoughts and behavior that can plague us when stressed to a state of giving up...
... a bit of what i wrote earlier in the first post today come into play when considering what Jesse schooled me on today's call... i think the concept here is that folks in the ctmu community understand that everyone has their own fighting to do, and that laziness encourages codependency and further entrapment, they expect people to do some hard work in regards to reading and contemplating, they don't take too kindly to laziness and warped sense of reality, hence the tough-love sort of cutting to the chase communication displayed from time to time... i'm beginning to get it now... i'm a bit of an encouragement type of person that will waste an unfortunate amount of hours trying to meet people where they are at, and to help and teach folks that are lazy and gave-up on fighting, and are in the per-contemplative to contemplative stages of change, that want easy simple shortcuts without putting in their own hard work, their own personal 'fight'... i had been stuck in that mindset for years, just give me the 'cheat-sheet', or outline, or just give me a pill that will allow me to keep myself subconsciously 'functional' so i can keep doing things 'my way' instead of getting a grasp on reality, what things trigger impulsive and retarded and insane behavior... instead of asking 'what is it about my lifestyle and the small bubble of reality that i forced myself into that requires change'... it may hurt some people's theology to read this, but god isn't always the answer... god is a big part of the answer, but it's just fvcking lazy to expect god to deliver us from every dysfunction that we carry through life without fighting on our behalf too, when we make the decision to follow god we are gifted 'fruits of the spirit', and self-control is the least favorite 'fruit' that insane or retarded or impaired and impulsive folks want to consider... just as we had to make conscious decisions to want to follow the words, actions, and behaviors of Jesus, we have to make conscious decisions to exercise the tools that he has provided us through his spirit...
... i may not be an actual addict, but my environment taught me how to give up on 'fighting the good fight', and society has embraced the concept of 'drinking away' the pain and things that we cannot fully understand that bothers us so... self-medicating to be able to function instead of embracing the suck and growing from trauma, and grief, and confusion, and improper thoughts/actions/behaviors, and misinformed priorities... but we find it easier to give-up fighting and re-adjusting our priorities and life-style and living the moment through the eyes of god instead of our own cloudy and poor vision...
... even for the wealthy there are no simple shortcuts in life, financially speaking there are some, but personal growth and development is the challenge that every human is faced with until our last dying breath, and the ultimate growth, which is a mutual relationship with god is everyone's good fight that others can only assist with, but we can't fight every fight for you, we have to make big-boy and big-girl decisions on our own... we have to be intentional in regards to our own destiny, and sobriety is required to do so, we each have our own genetic flaws as challenges, further impairment and self-retardation only makes the fight more difficult, if not impossible... actualizing our potential is minimized when we quit fighting for our lives, and freedom from darkness... god carries us and guides us during good times and bad times, and optimizing our time and energy can only be achieved when we awaken to reality and view our environment through the eyes of what many of us simply call 'god'. -- ct